Have you ever wondered why there are those who are in happy relationships and wonder why that isn’t you? I used to wonder that too. Life is pretty wonderful for me now, however, it hasn’t always been that way.
I’m Elaine Young and nowadays I am known as the UK’s Premier Sexual Happiness Guru. Over the span of my career I have worked with 100’s of patients and clients just like you. Whether that is to help you to return to best health or enable you to a place where you can truly enjoy Sexual Happiness.
I trained in England as a Registered Nurse I left for South Africa with the idea of adventure and where I knew they spoke English. After spending 4 decades as Registered Nurse Specialised in Intensive Care, Trauma Counselling with the Police and as a Coach and Mentor I decided to return to the UK with my Rhodesian husband and elderly mother. My expectation of working in Care Home Management was not viable so I turned to my love of Hypnosis and Alternative Health Treatments.
After a couple of false starts I found the perfect training of Rapid Transformational Therapy the unusual hypnosis process developed and taught by the Internationally renowned Marisa Peer.
I completed her certified course at Imperial College in London and have been registered as a Member of the National Council of Psychotherapists who have verified my previous training.
Some people say you only come into your true sexual being when you stop trying to please another person but connect instead.
There are many reasons why we may not be experiencing sexual happiness in our relationship. Mine began as unfortunately often as others do, by having an extreme sexual trauma.
I was young and having a ball. The Carnival Queen, travelling over the country and raising lots of money for charities. At a party one Saturday night, at a friend’s house, the fellows had gone out to get more booze. I wasn’t feeling to good so I went upstairs and lay on a large bed with a white candlewick bedspread.
The young man who had shown interest in me earlier, asked where I was and someone stupidly said “upstairs waiting for you.” He came to the room where I was resting. A chair was fixed to block the door and I never stood a chance. My best friend helped me home as she lived next door. I was home before curfew so my Mum suspected nothing and we didn’t tell anyone.
But fate played me another hand and I discovered I was pregnant at only 15. This was 1967 what was a girl to do? I went on to have a beautiful daughter however; she grew up only knowing adoptive parents. A huge heartbreak for me.
Why am I sharing this with you?
Life events affect us on every level. Even if those are not as traumatic as mine. The significance of the events I shared is that my brain decided that enough was enough and caused illness to prevent life events ever causing me pain and anguish again. I developed Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.
It seemed that every further rejection or betrayal caused my autoimmune system to react with more illnesses to slow me down. Cancer of the Uterus, Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis, Chronic Fatigue and recurrent Rheumatoid Arthritis, I was blessed to meet fantastic man 29 years my senior whom I married.
He took the wall of shame and guilt down, one brick at a time, he taught me to love. After 40 years of working in traditional medicine, I decided to approach health and wellbeing from a new direction and I trained as a Hypnotherapist with Marisa Peer who teaches the Rapid Transformational Therapy.
This work has been transformational for me, my health and my sexual happiness. I know it can help you too with whatever life issue is holding you back from true happiness.
Don’t suffer or tolerate it any more. Change CAN happen rapidly.